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Kindergarten Event Photoshooting
Never have captured so many kids my entire life. I am all drained from yesterday event photography job with darling hubby. It is really fun apart from "torn" muscles, been squating and running around the whole event. Thumbs up for hubby for the patience, and it turns out well.
Check these out - those darling kids.
Check these out - those darling kids.
Beauty lies in the eye of a little girl..
My cheeky 28 months fella is just too cute. She learn how to wear the little blue mickey toy spectacles today. Will chip in the picture if we got hold of it. (Has been busy lately - excuses)
Something that I really waited to see, waited to know - will my baby be a fashion icon, a model, one whom I want to be in my childhood. Today, I am really really happy, not because I wanted her to be whom I want her to be, but I am just happy when she know how to brush her hair aside with her tiny little fingers, put the spec on, touching her little pointed nose alight. Its just too cute to describe. My darling little tots is now a darling little girl. Its the milestone of achievement of my little baby girl that I am really proud of. ;)
Something that I really waited to see, waited to know - will my baby be a fashion icon, a model, one whom I want to be in my childhood. Today, I am really really happy, not because I wanted her to be whom I want her to be, but I am just happy when she know how to brush her hair aside with her tiny little fingers, put the spec on, touching her little pointed nose alight. Its just too cute to describe. My darling little tots is now a darling little girl. Its the milestone of achievement of my little baby girl that I am really proud of. ;)
A fruitful day and hope a miracle for a friend
It has been a fruitful day today. Never know I could be an angel but I really did brightens people life. When friends come to me, I know they count on me as a pillar, a shoulder to cry on, to solve problem and yes I am half way through learning the philosophy of life, and half way through being a counselor. And I am here for more.
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Mum sms me today. Heart melted. She read my blog and was touched. Now she know I could write well. ;P, maybe it make no sense for you readers, but it meant the world to me when my parent pat me on my back - a pillar of strength to move on. ;)
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Hubby always being a great supporter. Love him ever more everyday. Couldn't help to give him a big token of appreciation here. Hugs.
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A moment after the above statement, got a call from a close friend. Her daughter suspected having a cancer at 4 years old. Really a devastating news for me, she is getting a blood test tomorrow. Will need a week for the test but can't agree more that a week felt like a year. ;(
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Mum sms me today. Heart melted. She read my blog and was touched. Now she know I could write well. ;P, maybe it make no sense for you readers, but it meant the world to me when my parent pat me on my back - a pillar of strength to move on. ;)
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Hubby always being a great supporter. Love him ever more everyday. Couldn't help to give him a big token of appreciation here. Hugs.
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A moment after the above statement, got a call from a close friend. Her daughter suspected having a cancer at 4 years old. Really a devastating news for me, she is getting a blood test tomorrow. Will need a week for the test but can't agree more that a week felt like a year. ;(
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Above is a snapshot from the Star paper. Am so delighted to see the outcome. It was so funny and some say, she look like you, very familiar. Well, she is me, and yes, she is so funny. ;P
James is a hilarious friend and we had a lot of fun. Lots of laughter and yes, FUN. ;D
Chocolate Peach Tart
This recipe is for 48 tarts, should you need to do less, just reduce things in pro-rate. Happy Trying. ;)
Sugar Dough
Ingredients:
500g flour
300g butter
5g salt
125g icing sugar
2 eggs
Method:
a)Combine icing sugar and salt and mix well
b)Mix flour, butter until the mixture reach sandy texture (RUBBING)
c)Combine (a) and (b), add eggs gradually and knead for 1 minute.
d)Continue with hand kneading to form dough
e)Cling film and chill till kneaded (put 10-20 minutes in fridge)
f)Put the dough on table and roll the dough to 1 mm, put in a pan of 12 tart.
g)Ensure the 1mm dough does not leave any air bubbles on tart pan, or else it will rise unevenly.
h)Chill in fridge for 10 minutes, setup oven on 180 degree. (preheat)
i)Take out from chiller and bake in oven for 20 minutes or until its golden brown.
Chocolate filling:
400g dark chocolate bar
50g milk
400g cream
2 eggs
Method:
a) Place the chocolate in bowl and melt over another bowl with hot water under the stove
b) Place egg into jug and bring the cream to boil
c) Mix (a) and (b)
d) Stir the mixture into the melted chocolate, using whisk and then a wooden spoon
e) Pour into a cooled tart base and leave to set before putting in into chiller.
Bon Appetite!
Sugar Dough
Ingredients:
500g flour
300g butter
5g salt
125g icing sugar
2 eggs
Method:
a)Combine icing sugar and salt and mix well
b)Mix flour, butter until the mixture reach sandy texture (RUBBING)
c)Combine (a) and (b), add eggs gradually and knead for 1 minute.
d)Continue with hand kneading to form dough
e)Cling film and chill till kneaded (put 10-20 minutes in fridge)
f)Put the dough on table and roll the dough to 1 mm, put in a pan of 12 tart.
g)Ensure the 1mm dough does not leave any air bubbles on tart pan, or else it will rise unevenly.
h)Chill in fridge for 10 minutes, setup oven on 180 degree. (preheat)
i)Take out from chiller and bake in oven for 20 minutes or until its golden brown.
Chocolate filling:
400g dark chocolate bar
50g milk
400g cream
2 eggs
Method:
a) Place the chocolate in bowl and melt over another bowl with hot water under the stove
b) Place egg into jug and bring the cream to boil
c) Mix (a) and (b)
d) Stir the mixture into the melted chocolate, using whisk and then a wooden spoon
e) Pour into a cooled tart base and leave to set before putting in into chiller.
Bon Appetite!
MWCBA Malaysia Women's Career Building Association
MWCBA is a Non-Government Organisation (NGO) establish in 2009 with members from throughout Malaysia.
Its main aim is to provide mutual support for Malaysian women inclding single mothers, to help them create a better future, to enhance their self image,built thier self confidence and networks, to educate and assist them to setup their own businesses or to form a business partnerships.
Besides the above, MWCBA will also provide its member with services an consultations with regards to the Malaysian laws and trade information. MWCBA aspires to assist its member to solve business difficulties and seeks to protect the rights of its member.
Check it out at www.mwcba.org
Dinner Roll Recipe
Check out this recipe for Dinner Roll and have fun with our kids. I have tried and its yummy.
Below is copied from this link:
http://simpledailyrecipes.com/244/homemade-dinner-rolls/
These soft, delicious dinner rolls are ready in one hour from prep to serving. That's really not long when considering how long yeast breads usually take to rise, knead, shape, rise again. (I don't bake yeast breads for that reason. I don't have the time or the patience.)
This recipe doesn't involve any extra work in the kitchen. I followed the idea of the recipe from Betty Crocker for soft bread sticks. It's simple to throw together and your family will feel so special that you made them.
HERE'S ALL YOU HAVE TO DO
1 package quick-acting active dry yeast (2 1/4 teaspoons) ( 7 grams)
1 1/3 cup milk (105º to 115ºF degrees)
3 to 3 1/2 cups flour or whole wheat flour
3 tablespoons olive oil
1 tablespoon sugar
1 teaspoon salt
1 tablespoon melted butter
coarse salt
Dissolve yeast in warm milk with sugar in electric mixer bowl. Stir in 1 cup flour, oil, and salt. Beat until smooth. Stir in enough remaining flour, scraping dough from side of bowl, until soft dough forms. Cover and let rise in warm place until double, about 45 minutes.
Heat oven 400ºF degrees. Prep a 12 cup muffin pan with non-stick cooking spray.
Punch down dough in center and fold over a few times. Pinch off 1 inch balls of dough and quickly roll in palm of hands. Put 3 balls to one muffin cup; brush with melted butter; sprinkle with coarse salt.
Bake 12 to 15 minutes, until crust is light golden brown. Immediately remove from pan. Store loosely covered.
Below is copied from this link:
http://simpledailyrecipes.com/244/homemade-dinner-rolls/
These soft, delicious dinner rolls are ready in one hour from prep to serving. That's really not long when considering how long yeast breads usually take to rise, knead, shape, rise again. (I don't bake yeast breads for that reason. I don't have the time or the patience.)
This recipe doesn't involve any extra work in the kitchen. I followed the idea of the recipe from Betty Crocker for soft bread sticks. It's simple to throw together and your family will feel so special that you made them.
HERE'S ALL YOU HAVE TO DO
1 package quick-acting active dry yeast (2 1/4 teaspoons) ( 7 grams)
1 1/3 cup milk (105º to 115ºF degrees)
3 to 3 1/2 cups flour or whole wheat flour
3 tablespoons olive oil
1 tablespoon sugar
1 teaspoon salt
1 tablespoon melted butter
coarse salt
Dissolve yeast in warm milk with sugar in electric mixer bowl. Stir in 1 cup flour, oil, and salt. Beat until smooth. Stir in enough remaining flour, scraping dough from side of bowl, until soft dough forms. Cover and let rise in warm place until double, about 45 minutes.
Heat oven 400ºF degrees. Prep a 12 cup muffin pan with non-stick cooking spray.
Punch down dough in center and fold over a few times. Pinch off 1 inch balls of dough and quickly roll in palm of hands. Put 3 balls to one muffin cup; brush with melted butter; sprinkle with coarse salt.
Bake 12 to 15 minutes, until crust is light golden brown. Immediately remove from pan. Store loosely covered.
William Syndrome walks at 26 months
Hurray! only God knows, but I think everyone close to me know I am the happiest mummy on earth to see April finally got the courage to walk more than 10 steps yesterday. Its really a joyous moment I would remember the rest of my life. Going to Genting Highland and eating her strawberries the other day perhaps do the trick. Probably she got back her confidence by walking on the bed, so falling down is not a drama anymore.
Aiyin - one of my beloved blog mummy once told me the earlier William Syndrome child walks at 5 years old. That makes me even jumping for joy to witness April's achievement. A credit must be given to the children of April's nanny too. 4 of them has been very encouraging to her and its really better than the physio that we went at HUKM. In HUKM, we get the ideas, but most important is the practise, and I felt really really blessed.
Now I am hoping she will do good with shoes too, but I will let her takes her time. I learnt the lesson from her earlier 3-7 steps walking experience, we got too instense with her, as we got too excited, and that loses her confidence in walking, stopped for 2 months and now, Hurray, she is back on foot again. This round, we will just wait and see. :D
Aiyin - one of my beloved blog mummy once told me the earlier William Syndrome child walks at 5 years old. That makes me even jumping for joy to witness April's achievement. A credit must be given to the children of April's nanny too. 4 of them has been very encouraging to her and its really better than the physio that we went at HUKM. In HUKM, we get the ideas, but most important is the practise, and I felt really really blessed.
Now I am hoping she will do good with shoes too, but I will let her takes her time. I learnt the lesson from her earlier 3-7 steps walking experience, we got too instense with her, as we got too excited, and that loses her confidence in walking, stopped for 2 months and now, Hurray, she is back on foot again. This round, we will just wait and see. :D
Seven Things You Should Never Say to Your Toddler
Here is one article that is shared from my sister. I find it really true, and useful when you are having two kiddos at home. ;)
Don’t cry
Toddlers will cry when they are upset, hungry, angry, frustrated, sad. When they feel discomfort and unable to voice out, they will communicate their feelings and need the way they know how. Try saying “You are crying because you are ...” or “You need my help in ...” It is more comforting to a toddler when you are understanding and supportive rather than condescending.
Are you ready to go?
Toddlers do not keep time like adults do. They need time to prepare for making transitions. Prior to the scheduled time for leaving, inform your toddler what will happen in a few minutes time.
Help her to pack up to get ready. When it is time to leave, say to your child: “You are all ready to leave and go home. I am so glad we are all set.”
Why do you keep doing this? I have told you so many times ...
Toddlers are naturally impulsive. They do what they like and when they like it. They like repetition. They live for the present. Say: “Remember we keep our floors dry. Stop splashing water or you will have to leave this area. Wet floors are dangerous. You can get hurt when the floors are wet.” Always repeat what is important so that your toddler can do it correctly.
Share your toys with your friend.
The concept of ownership is clear to the child but not with sharing. They are still new to this social behaviour. Sharing for toddlers really mean “I am giving away to you.”
It is best to say to your toddler “Your friend likes to play with your toys. You can play with your toys and he can also play with your toys.
Stop jumping around and be quiet.
Toddlers are active. It is practically impossible to stop being their natural selves. When the noise level gets intolerable, work out a plan that your toddler is comfortable with like “You can jump for five minutes and after that, we can read a book together.”
You cannot take without asking first. Say “please”.
Manners are learned over time. As they are older, they will start to use more social graces. Toddlers fare better with positive statements such as “Smile and say “May I?”
You cannot touch this.
When you say this to your toddler, he receives a very different message. He hears only two words “touch this”. He will do exactly that and play with it. If there is something you do not want your toddler to get his hands on, remove it from his sight or distract him to do something else.
Don’t cry
Toddlers will cry when they are upset, hungry, angry, frustrated, sad. When they feel discomfort and unable to voice out, they will communicate their feelings and need the way they know how. Try saying “You are crying because you are ...” or “You need my help in ...” It is more comforting to a toddler when you are understanding and supportive rather than condescending.
Are you ready to go?
Toddlers do not keep time like adults do. They need time to prepare for making transitions. Prior to the scheduled time for leaving, inform your toddler what will happen in a few minutes time.
Help her to pack up to get ready. When it is time to leave, say to your child: “You are all ready to leave and go home. I am so glad we are all set.”
Why do you keep doing this? I have told you so many times ...
Toddlers are naturally impulsive. They do what they like and when they like it. They like repetition. They live for the present. Say: “Remember we keep our floors dry. Stop splashing water or you will have to leave this area. Wet floors are dangerous. You can get hurt when the floors are wet.” Always repeat what is important so that your toddler can do it correctly.
Share your toys with your friend.
The concept of ownership is clear to the child but not with sharing. They are still new to this social behaviour. Sharing for toddlers really mean “I am giving away to you.”
It is best to say to your toddler “Your friend likes to play with your toys. You can play with your toys and he can also play with your toys.
Stop jumping around and be quiet.
Toddlers are active. It is practically impossible to stop being their natural selves. When the noise level gets intolerable, work out a plan that your toddler is comfortable with like “You can jump for five minutes and after that, we can read a book together.”
You cannot take without asking first. Say “please”.
Manners are learned over time. As they are older, they will start to use more social graces. Toddlers fare better with positive statements such as “Smile and say “May I?”
You cannot touch this.
When you say this to your toddler, he receives a very different message. He hears only two words “touch this”. He will do exactly that and play with it. If there is something you do not want your toddler to get his hands on, remove it from his sight or distract him to do something else.
www.rwgenting.com & Strawberry Farm at Genting Highland
It has been a fruitful days Uphill in Genting Highland last weekend. Despite the drizzling rain on the first day, I guess the kids enjoy indoor and outdoor too.
A credit to be given to hubby for his patient despite busy with his work email, and the kids for their good behavior during the 3 days.
Why do I say its a fruitful trip? Hubby got his day out, away from the city and plays like a teenage boy giving himself ample rides on the thrills, bumper cars, 4D show and blah blah blah. While the kids astonished me - Jaden conquered his fear by riding the horse, go to 8 times of train ride by himself, and got both of us dizzy riding the cup with April. Its so dizzy for us, that we felt like throwing out but oh.. the kids, they enjoyed it and ask us to spin it fast. That is the generation gap. Couldn't help it but we are really a little too wise for the ride. LOL.
Will chip in more when I am free for Genting trip.
Meanwhile on the 3rd day, it was sunny and cool and we are heading to Strawberry Farm. Its a flash back of Cameron Highland where we had April made there. Sounds funny, but we are bringing April there to find her lost chromosome. ;P
She dressed up like a strawberry that day, hubby claimed. She loves the strawberry, the way she eat, its just so satisfying, but to us its a little sour, but sweeter than the one in Cameron - my personal opinion.
While Jaden had been busy plucking strawberry and keep saying mummy, where is the basket? I want to pluck strawberry. He did it himself and really happy and proud with his strawberries.
Its worth to check out the Strawberry Farm in Genting Highland, big and cosy strawberry cafe, huge souvenir area, vegetable and plants, strawberry and even honeys. Worth a trip with the kids to expose them to nature, plants and an experience to pluck their own strawberry - an hour drive from Kuala Lumpur is definitely a better choice compare to Cameron Highland - what would you think?
Give it a go! The farm is just next to the condo at Gohtong Jaya town. Ample car park at Gohtong sport centre and it’s a free parking.
Where is This?
Genting Strawberry Farm
Here is the map: http://www.gentingstrawberry.com/gentingstrawberry/map.htm
Open from 9.00 am till 7.00 pm. Entrance is FREE
A credit to be given to hubby for his patient despite busy with his work email, and the kids for their good behavior during the 3 days.
Why do I say its a fruitful trip? Hubby got his day out, away from the city and plays like a teenage boy giving himself ample rides on the thrills, bumper cars, 4D show and blah blah blah. While the kids astonished me - Jaden conquered his fear by riding the horse, go to 8 times of train ride by himself, and got both of us dizzy riding the cup with April. Its so dizzy for us, that we felt like throwing out but oh.. the kids, they enjoyed it and ask us to spin it fast. That is the generation gap. Couldn't help it but we are really a little too wise for the ride. LOL.
Will chip in more when I am free for Genting trip.
Meanwhile on the 3rd day, it was sunny and cool and we are heading to Strawberry Farm. Its a flash back of Cameron Highland where we had April made there. Sounds funny, but we are bringing April there to find her lost chromosome. ;P
She dressed up like a strawberry that day, hubby claimed. She loves the strawberry, the way she eat, its just so satisfying, but to us its a little sour, but sweeter than the one in Cameron - my personal opinion.
While Jaden had been busy plucking strawberry and keep saying mummy, where is the basket? I want to pluck strawberry. He did it himself and really happy and proud with his strawberries.
Its worth to check out the Strawberry Farm in Genting Highland, big and cosy strawberry cafe, huge souvenir area, vegetable and plants, strawberry and even honeys. Worth a trip with the kids to expose them to nature, plants and an experience to pluck their own strawberry - an hour drive from Kuala Lumpur is definitely a better choice compare to Cameron Highland - what would you think?
Give it a go! The farm is just next to the condo at Gohtong Jaya town. Ample car park at Gohtong sport centre and it’s a free parking.
Where is This?
Genting Strawberry Farm
Here is the map: http://www.gentingstrawberry.com/gentingstrawberry/map.htm
Open from 9.00 am till 7.00 pm. Entrance is FREE
Kuala Lumpur Bird Park @ Lake Garden with Family
It has been a great day hanging out as a family at KL Bird Park last Sunday. Family has 3 kiddo's now and definitely make everyone busy with them. Mummy intention of cooking lunch is getting alright, mee hoon served, hotdog done, papaya cut, and water is all packed. There's additional clothing for kiddos. Daddy prepares the cameras. We got all bathed, dressed up and 2 strollers, kids bottles, kids snacks, caps.. and it got the car fulled. It has been really hectic just preparing the things, nevertheless it turns out fun. But silly mummy left April's shoe in the car, only realised that when we had walked half the park. ;P
KL Bird Park, also known as the World's LARGEST Free-flight Walk in Aviary is definetely a spot you shouldn't miss while visiting Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Its recommended especially if you bring your kids. We saw lots of egrets and peacocks everywhere. They walk freely in the park at one large sections and while feeding them breads, they would even follow you around, you could witness them fly in front of you, looking for food, and the next thing you know you are surrounded by more than 20 of them. It was fun being in their habitat. Kids love to see them too.
If you do bring your own food, do try to have it at Hornbill restaurant's lowest floor, as I think its the only clean sheltered area without bird drop. ;P. There is some resting benches and sheltered area but its full of bird drops and birds are everywhere looking for food.
Jaden loves the Chicks NURSERY area and it was awesome witnessing the chicks comes out from the eggshell, and there are chicks there for us to touch and see.
We are busy photographing and looking after kids, but definitely we have seen lots of parrots, flamingo, hornbill, and lots of other feathered friends.
To see to Believe!
Where is This?
KL Birk Park
920, Jalan Cenderawasih, Taman Tasik Perdana, 50480 Kuala Lumpur
Contact:
+60(3) 22721010
Opens 9-6pm
Segway Fun Ride @ Lake Garden
It was an awesome experience, thanks to mum dad bro sis to look after our trio's, we had a double date with sis and Jack at Lake Garden, strolling along Lake Garden with this superb Segway a.k.a Personal transporter.
It has been 13 years back and yes, Lake Garden is our first date venue back then. *blush* The garden has changed so much and its really lovely with flowers and the flora were magnificent.
Weather was great throughout the hour and we manage to snap lovely photo's. I notice the men were like teenagers from afar as they go around with the Segway as if they are back to play again. ;)
Segway is a self balancing machine. One thing to look out for is the unbalanced floor or road as my sis has just tripped over a pipe and caused herself a mild injury. Sad to know that the provider doesn't have proper first aid and we do note that they should also provide good safety measure, ie. knee and elbow pad. Overall, is a great hangout with Segway, great till we feel that walking afterwards took a little more effort than usual. ;P
Where is This?
SEGWAY Kuala Lumpur
Lake Garden
next to National Museum in Kuala-Lumpur, Malaysia
Contact:
+60(12)912-5420
Opens 9-6pm
Inspiring article for mothers of handicapped Child
Was going through the website and find this so so true. ;D
Written by Erma Bombeck
Published in Today Newspaper
September 4th 1993
Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures, and a couple by habit. This year, nearly 100,000 women will become mothers of handicapped children.
Did you ever wonder how mothers of handicapped children are chosen?
Somehow I visualize God hovering over Earth selecting his instruments for propagation with great
care and deliberation. As he observes, he instructs his angels to make notes in a giant ledger.
Armstrong, Beth; son; patron saint, Matthew. Forrest, Marjorie; daughter; patron saint, Cecelia.
Rudledge, Carrie; twins; patron saint .... give her Gerard, he's used to profanity.
Finally, he passes a name to an angel and smiles, Give her a handicapped child.
The angel is curious. Why this one, God? She's so happy. Exactly, smiles God. Could I give a handicapped child a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel. But has she patience? asks the angel. I don't want her to have too much patience or she will drown in a sea of self pity and despair. Once the shock and resentment wears off, she'll handle it. I watched her today. She has that feeling of self and independence. She'll have to teach the child to live in her world and that's not going to be easy. But, Lord, I don't think she even believes in you. God smiles. No matter. I can fix that. This one is perfect. She has just enough selfishness. The angel gasps, Selfishness? Is that a virtue? God nods. If she can't separate herself from the child occasionally, she'll never survive. Yes, there is a woman I will bless with a child less then perfect. She doesn't realize it yet, but she is to be envied. She will never take for granted a spoken word. She will never consider a step ordinary. When her child says Mommy for the first time, she will be present at a miracle and know it! When she describes a tree or a sunset to her blind child, she will see it as few people ever see my creations. I will permit her to see clearly the things I see - ignorance, cruelty, prejudice - and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life because she is doing my work as surely as she is here by my side.
And what about her patron saint? asks the angel, his pen poised in midair. God smiles.
A mirror will suffice.
Written by Erma Bombeck
Published in Today Newspaper
September 4th 1993
Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures, and a couple by habit. This year, nearly 100,000 women will become mothers of handicapped children.
Did you ever wonder how mothers of handicapped children are chosen?
Somehow I visualize God hovering over Earth selecting his instruments for propagation with great
care and deliberation. As he observes, he instructs his angels to make notes in a giant ledger.
Armstrong, Beth; son; patron saint, Matthew. Forrest, Marjorie; daughter; patron saint, Cecelia.
Rudledge, Carrie; twins; patron saint .... give her Gerard, he's used to profanity.
Finally, he passes a name to an angel and smiles, Give her a handicapped child.
The angel is curious. Why this one, God? She's so happy. Exactly, smiles God. Could I give a handicapped child a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel. But has she patience? asks the angel. I don't want her to have too much patience or she will drown in a sea of self pity and despair. Once the shock and resentment wears off, she'll handle it. I watched her today. She has that feeling of self and independence. She'll have to teach the child to live in her world and that's not going to be easy. But, Lord, I don't think she even believes in you. God smiles. No matter. I can fix that. This one is perfect. She has just enough selfishness. The angel gasps, Selfishness? Is that a virtue? God nods. If she can't separate herself from the child occasionally, she'll never survive. Yes, there is a woman I will bless with a child less then perfect. She doesn't realize it yet, but she is to be envied. She will never take for granted a spoken word. She will never consider a step ordinary. When her child says Mommy for the first time, she will be present at a miracle and know it! When she describes a tree or a sunset to her blind child, she will see it as few people ever see my creations. I will permit her to see clearly the things I see - ignorance, cruelty, prejudice - and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life because she is doing my work as surely as she is here by my side.
And what about her patron saint? asks the angel, his pen poised in midair. God smiles.
A mirror will suffice.
When will my child walk and talk?
Often we awaits our child to talk and walk, anticipation for these milestones. It came naturally and they will get to that before 2 years old.
April's milestone come and go, give a little hope to us,the proud parent and didn't walk after her 7-8 steps. She called daddy, dirty, aunty in her early months and didn't repeat her vocal and till now. Daddy is hoping to hear the word "papa" so badly. Nope, didn't utter any. Dissapointed at times, he would just sum it off by dissapointment and at little times get "angry". Sad to see the situation as I am unsure and helpless at times. She would say " aaa.. aaa... aa...." resembles of some kind of communication with us, but to us, it doesn't sound a word or phases.
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Going through physio and speech theraphy, I know she is trying to communicate at her best, seeing her expression let me know her needs, we do not speak but its somehow by eye contact or the feeling of she wanting something, whether its a hug, food, toys, play - its just the connection that we built within that can't be describe in words.
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April gave us surprise at times, to be able to hold on things to walk, to be able to hum 2 songs which she hear often in the car, one nursery rhyme and another is a musical.
My angel has turns two in a glimpse. How time flies and darling, we are still ancitipate the moment you will be walking in front of us. Daddy and mummy dreamt of you running around happily and we would love that in reality in a near time. ;)
April's milestone come and go, give a little hope to us,the proud parent and didn't walk after her 7-8 steps. She called daddy, dirty, aunty in her early months and didn't repeat her vocal and till now. Daddy is hoping to hear the word "papa" so badly. Nope, didn't utter any. Dissapointed at times, he would just sum it off by dissapointment and at little times get "angry". Sad to see the situation as I am unsure and helpless at times. She would say " aaa.. aaa... aa...." resembles of some kind of communication with us, but to us, it doesn't sound a word or phases.
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Going through physio and speech theraphy, I know she is trying to communicate at her best, seeing her expression let me know her needs, we do not speak but its somehow by eye contact or the feeling of she wanting something, whether its a hug, food, toys, play - its just the connection that we built within that can't be describe in words.
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April gave us surprise at times, to be able to hold on things to walk, to be able to hum 2 songs which she hear often in the car, one nursery rhyme and another is a musical.
My angel has turns two in a glimpse. How time flies and darling, we are still ancitipate the moment you will be walking in front of us. Daddy and mummy dreamt of you running around happily and we would love that in reality in a near time. ;)
Photography @ KLCC Park
Weekend has been fun - you hear it right (FUN). Fun chasing the kids, fun pleasing them with their demanding gestures ie food, carry up and down, strolling them around, and the best place you can go is park and this week we are at KLCC park!
KLCC park is great for a kids hangout as there is a lot of playground for them to mingle around, climb up and down, to and fro, they got so excited with things and it can last up to hours of excitement for the adventureous and non-adventurous one will not be bored just looking at other kids.
I had a towel on my head as ohh.. hasn't been sweating too much lately, not even after pilate. ;P
Mummy tries daddy's gadget on the kids and awesome weather do a little trick. It turns out well, and I got a pat on the back for a good shot. ;D
Cyberwellness Workshop for Parents
This is a realistic scenario today: Our children spend half of their waking hours in cyberspace, while parents unfamiliar with the internet gradually lose confidence in parenting because they do not know what their children are up to, and cannot understand why they seem so disconnected from the family.
Community At Heart is excited to bring you this practical workshop on 23 Jul, 10am – 3pm to help parents and educators understand youths as well as learn tips on how to engage them on internet issues. Many have been able to overcome cyberspace barriers and learnt to connect with their children after attending these workshops.
This in-depth workshop will explore specific trends and segments of today’s cyber world, how they work as well as its benefits and dangers and focus specially on:
Social Media
Blogging
Gaming
Pornography
Mentoring
We hope YOU will be able to conquer the fears you may have of the cyberspace, bond with your children through using the internet, and make the most of the internet in your parenting journey!
Register NOW! Any questions, please feel free to call Carolyn 016 333 0505 or Community At Heart.
A lovely sum up of William Syndrome by Robert Finn
Hubby enjoy reading this and say we will wait for Our April to say Oh Gosh! Ko ko tooks all my toys! ;D
And can’t wait to hear her pronounced more animal's name than Jaden does…..including the individual skeleton parts name
And funny to see her get a broom out from the store when we ask her to mop the floor… ;D….kakaka…
Nice to read this article.
Amazing sum up of William Syndrome.
Different Mind by Robert Finn
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And can’t wait to hear her pronounced more animal's name than Jaden does…..including the individual skeleton parts name
And funny to see her get a broom out from the store when we ask her to mop the floor… ;D….kakaka…
Nice to read this article.
Amazing sum up of William Syndrome.
Different Mind by Robert Finn
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William Syndrome : PWD Organisation
When my article is published in the Star Newspaper recently, I am delighted in having much advice, support, well-wishers and feedback from private organisation, doctors, schools, mothers and professors.
Thanks and I really appreciate those information and to be part of the great society of PWD's. Having my daughter actually opens and change my thoughts on PWD, and how an organisation like this brings hope and wonders to them.
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For me, a little of William really bring cheers as they have not much worries in comparison with my elder son. Happy and outgoing, definitely agree on her safety and is working out on that. Jaden used to be a little jealous with his sister, but now look at him! He ask us to pick April up to go out together, cry with her, and learnt along the way. that is the pride of a mother, I think. The love of a brother, and I am happy of who April are. Someone who bring changes to another kid of mine. April are also someone you can talk almost all nonsense and she just listens and smile.. (even got scold) and somehow you wont feel like scolding her. ;P - Janet say I am too soft with her.
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This special column is highlighted for PWD - Person With Dissability. We have a large community who connect with each others for support and sharing of information. Kindly e-mail me so that we could include you in the loop for activity, news and the progress of the organisation to support PWD in the country.
You are not alone there, as we shared our passion in bringing up our child, with the support of loving individuals around the country. ;)
Thanks and I really appreciate those information and to be part of the great society of PWD's. Having my daughter actually opens and change my thoughts on PWD, and how an organisation like this brings hope and wonders to them.
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For me, a little of William really bring cheers as they have not much worries in comparison with my elder son. Happy and outgoing, definitely agree on her safety and is working out on that. Jaden used to be a little jealous with his sister, but now look at him! He ask us to pick April up to go out together, cry with her, and learnt along the way. that is the pride of a mother, I think. The love of a brother, and I am happy of who April are. Someone who bring changes to another kid of mine. April are also someone you can talk almost all nonsense and she just listens and smile.. (even got scold) and somehow you wont feel like scolding her. ;P - Janet say I am too soft with her.
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This special column is highlighted for PWD - Person With Dissability. We have a large community who connect with each others for support and sharing of information. Kindly e-mail me so that we could include you in the loop for activity, news and the progress of the organisation to support PWD in the country.
You are not alone there, as we shared our passion in bringing up our child, with the support of loving individuals around the country. ;)
How my Mothers Day end up being Children's Day. ;p
Now probably I would understand Mother's Day mean to be away from child for few hour without any interruption, have one day ALL by herself, enjoyed what she love for a day. Not necessary spending money, but just manage to complete a show would be lovely.
Yesterday mark a day - how formal. ;P
Mothers Day 2011
AM: Settling down children. Pack Jaden favourite toys, and his favourite cup in a bag.
NOON: Sending Both to Nanny place, keep reminding Jaden that we will be away for few hours and that he NEED to be at nanny place with April and there is goh-goh (brother) and che-che (sister) to play with him. He say okay. How convincing!
XXX
Upon leaving nanny place, Jaden screams and yells as wouldn't want to be there. But.. but.. how about all the promises?? I left as wanted him to be independent. From the ground floor, we still can hear him scream his mighty voice on level 3.
XXX
Went to see The Mines My Lovely Mum 2011 final show, and how smooth... and a phone call from nanny and mum in law at the same time in the midst of show to tell me Jaden cry nonstop looking for mummy, then he request to be sent to his granny place and they did.. Aww... and he lived happily ever after.
Moral of the Story: Kids are smart in doing drama, and smart to rescue himself by crying, so parents, don’t easily get fooled.
XXX
Despite his CLEVER behavior and to ensure that we are always there for him (a bit sarcastic here), we bring him to shopping for a toy and some yummy food of his choice.
Don't you think it’s more like a children's day instead?
A hot bath in the midnight is my own time yesterday as I sleep through the entire night like a log.
Happy Mother's Day to All. For me, we are strong and I believe that everything is possible! ;)
Yesterday mark a day - how formal. ;P
Mothers Day 2011
AM: Settling down children. Pack Jaden favourite toys, and his favourite cup in a bag.
NOON: Sending Both to Nanny place, keep reminding Jaden that we will be away for few hours and that he NEED to be at nanny place with April and there is goh-goh (brother) and che-che (sister) to play with him. He say okay. How convincing!
XXX
Upon leaving nanny place, Jaden screams and yells as wouldn't want to be there. But.. but.. how about all the promises?? I left as wanted him to be independent. From the ground floor, we still can hear him scream his mighty voice on level 3.
XXX
Went to see The Mines My Lovely Mum 2011 final show, and how smooth... and a phone call from nanny and mum in law at the same time in the midst of show to tell me Jaden cry nonstop looking for mummy, then he request to be sent to his granny place and they did.. Aww... and he lived happily ever after.
Moral of the Story: Kids are smart in doing drama, and smart to rescue himself by crying, so parents, don’t easily get fooled.
XXX
Despite his CLEVER behavior and to ensure that we are always there for him (a bit sarcastic here), we bring him to shopping for a toy and some yummy food of his choice.
Don't you think it’s more like a children's day instead?
A hot bath in the midnight is my own time yesterday as I sleep through the entire night like a log.
Happy Mother's Day to All. For me, we are strong and I believe that everything is possible! ;)
Coughing - Remedy from Chinese Herb Medication?
Coughing is definitely a headache for children and even adult. Dry Cough, phlegm, vomiting while coughing, eats too full and cough follow by vomiting and the list goes on. Most parents has gone through this, frustrated, and we are seeking high and low for doctors and medications, from hospital, clinics and other medication and it seems to be hopeless. Would like to share my own experience:
a) HUKM in Cheras - (one of the semi-private government hospitals in Malaysia) provides a good medication and doctor advice for babies and toddlers. Children under 3 are NOT suitable for antibiotic, thus it won't be given to them.
Why private clinic does give those knowing it’s bad for children under 3? The doctor in HUKM told me it's because of the anxious parents who think that the cough or sore throat can't be cured without antibiotics. So, always prevent giving antibiotic to children under 3.
b) Here is a retiree doctor from Tong Shin hospital in Tokong Ling Shan. He is seeing patient weekly and cure many by prescribing Chinese herb medication. Jaden has cough occasionally and it last for long and clinical medication doesn't help. We went to this doctor and yes, he is getting better health. This doctor is famous with treating cough among adult and children and other health problems.
Check This Out:
Tokong Ling Shan
No. 74, Batu 4 1/2, Kampung Pakar
Salak South, 57100 Kuala Lumpur
Contact: 7820508 (Kindly contact TM 103 for the new 8 digit phone number)
Opening hour and date: From 8 pm - but do get there early for numbers and queue. You need to call before you go as the Chinese practitioner may only be there occasionally.
Rate: For charity and donation - you may put any amount in the box. (Inclusive of 2 big bottle of medication for 2 weeks)
(The above is solely from my experience and had held no obligation to others)
a) HUKM in Cheras - (one of the semi-private government hospitals in Malaysia) provides a good medication and doctor advice for babies and toddlers. Children under 3 are NOT suitable for antibiotic, thus it won't be given to them.
Why private clinic does give those knowing it’s bad for children under 3? The doctor in HUKM told me it's because of the anxious parents who think that the cough or sore throat can't be cured without antibiotics. So, always prevent giving antibiotic to children under 3.
b) Here is a retiree doctor from Tong Shin hospital in Tokong Ling Shan. He is seeing patient weekly and cure many by prescribing Chinese herb medication. Jaden has cough occasionally and it last for long and clinical medication doesn't help. We went to this doctor and yes, he is getting better health. This doctor is famous with treating cough among adult and children and other health problems.
Check This Out:
Tokong Ling Shan
No. 74, Batu 4 1/2, Kampung Pakar
Salak South, 57100 Kuala Lumpur
Contact: 7820508 (Kindly contact TM 103 for the new 8 digit phone number)
Opening hour and date: From 8 pm - but do get there early for numbers and queue. You need to call before you go as the Chinese practitioner may only be there occasionally.
Rate: For charity and donation - you may put any amount in the box. (Inclusive of 2 big bottle of medication for 2 weeks)
(The above is solely from my experience and had held no obligation to others)
How to Handle a Cranky 3 years old
When you hear people say terrible three, you will be asking yourself whether that really happens? I would say YES! Finally I have today, a peaceful day to blog after the hectic, adventurous weekend. Jaden has been very cranky lately. He wants his own way, he wants new adventure, he wants to explore new toys, he wanted to go new place and he even want to learn new songs, taste new food and make his sister DOES different funny things to make himself laugh. YES, you didn't hear me wrong as mine did that. But, we find it great as it makes us laugh too. Silly but that is the joy that we have as parent of two. Valuable and Fantastic.
We finds different way to please them, and for me, (trying by not increasing my voice and sounds like a crazy mummy), here you go some to-do list on the rescue:
a) Get them enough nap in their golden 2pm nap time. It works wonder if you want them to behave and give you happy faces during your day out.
b) Bring enough supplies of biscuits, drinks and healthy junks and a stroller with their favourite toys while you want to enjoy a performance, show or even a movie. Tested that. I bring 2 kiddies to a movie. Overall rated of behaviour satisfaction: 8.9/10.
Tips and trick: Bring them to a fun-packed animation movie like RIO. (Forget about the mess, as long as we enjoyed the movie as a family) End of the day: you will find peeled banana skin in your bag, biscuits wrapper and dirtied wet tissue and biscuits crumb on your lap. ;P - a good try for me though. Hubby even make a board to place both of them on top of the cinema seat. Pavillion Kuala Lumpur will have a wide and cleaner cinema seat for family.
c) My way to handle tantrum: to put them in their "crying" corner. Once done, they will come to you and look for tissue to wipe their tears.
Highlight: If ever you have had your child with in law, rules no 1 - step out when they cry as with definite their grandparent will be protective and child will be of a drama king. Our thought on crying kids are so much different, hence do not felt hopeless as you are not alone. ;P
d) Filled them with activities:
- do it yourself flash card (lifecycle of animals and insects - they love to see how it works)
- sand art (boys did it and wanted to mix colours, but I didn't see much excitement he had here compare to girls)
- swimming and bath toys during bath time. (make their bath time more fun and enjoyable, you will have more time similing than shouting at them, they will spend more time playing rather than concentrating on the irritating shampoo on their face) Check out Mimi Loves Fish by K Kid - it works wonder as both my kiddies enjoy scooping the floating fish from the net.
- give them a scissor and a coloured paper and they will facinated by their own skill for a day. Give them a small cup to place the pieces or it will be everywhere on the floor.
- sticker book
- one nursery rhymes book (you sing with them with action and they can giggles for hour) eg of one you can fit in great moves. "Ring O Roses", "Pat A Cake", "Row A Boat", "Alligator Alarm" just to name a few.
- get them a set of musical instruments to make a band as a family.
Above is just some of the activities we can have at home or outdoor. Have fun with them at minimal cost. Its an alternative going to shopping malls these days. ;)
Jessie Koo Advertisement @ The Mines Shopping Mall
The much awaited moment is here. Delighted and anxious I am, being chosen as the talent for The Mines My Lovely Mum 2011 advertisement last month has been a unforgettable experience. Here is the snapshot:
Walking into The Mines shopping mall today has gave me a different experience today. There is a huge advertisement printing of myself inside the lift at the door, and my son is giggling there seeing the familiar face. Advertisement board in the shopping center is up with the picture, and every merchandise shop has one of this at their cashier - the portrait of Jessie Koo. My family is there with me and hope I have made them proud.
Seems like another dream come true as felt very very lucky to be selected. Again, thank you Capital Land and The Mines for this first in the lifetime experience. ;)
Where Is This?
Level 3, Centre Court, The Mines
Sunday, May 8 · 3:00pm - 5:00pm
Walking into The Mines shopping mall today has gave me a different experience today. There is a huge advertisement printing of myself inside the lift at the door, and my son is giggling there seeing the familiar face. Advertisement board in the shopping center is up with the picture, and every merchandise shop has one of this at their cashier - the portrait of Jessie Koo. My family is there with me and hope I have made them proud.
Seems like another dream come true as felt very very lucky to be selected. Again, thank you Capital Land and The Mines for this first in the lifetime experience. ;)
Where Is This?
Level 3, Centre Court, The Mines
Sunday, May 8 · 3:00pm - 5:00pm
Come and witness the Crowning of My Lovely Mum 2011 Champion! Top 12 finalists will be seen in casual and evening wear! There will be AWESOME dancing happening as well, and that's not all...they have a SPECIAL celebrity attending the Grand Final...
So, mark May 8 as the date to remember on your calendar and make your way to THE MINES next Sunday at 3pm!
One of the gorgeous photo courtesy from hubby collections:
Any bigger picture? Yes, there are aplenty, but you will get a different experience seeing the great show yourself.
So, mark May 8 as the date to remember on your calendar and make your way to THE MINES next Sunday at 3pm!
One of the gorgeous photo courtesy from hubby collections:
Any bigger picture? Yes, there are aplenty, but you will get a different experience seeing the great show yourself.
Secretary Symposia National Conference 2011 - Celebrating Administrative Brilliancy
Secretary, Office Administrator and PA needs to sharpen their saw and that's what the above mentioned conference is about.
Here's some highlight of this year Conference:
- How to Think Like your Boss
- Wake up to Dazzle
- Managing Your Role to Finish Well
- Do you have a Perfect Match?
- Gorgeous, Sexy and Rich (Money for Women in Good and Tough times)
- You are more Beautiful than you think
- 8 ideas to Boost your Career
- It's All About You!
Had a great time with their activity, and looking at the crowd of 380 delegates and most of them are not their first year in the yearly conference, I would say that they are the preferable sought after training provider for Secretarial conference in Kuala Lumpur. Held at Seri Pacific Hotel, Kuala Lumpur on 27-28th April 2011.
My personal rating:
a) The crowd is just too large and those who are seated in the corner are less attentive too.
b) The conference is great for HR networking as you can meet a number of lovely secretaries.
c) The topics here are very general if you compared to a more precise workshop. Here, you will probably have fun singing or dancing rather than focusing on the topics so much.
Apart from my lil' drawback, I am really delighted to be one of the "Ms. Winning Smile 2011" - 2nd runner up among 380 delegates. Got myself a SunGlass, love it as hasn't got one.
Being a leader to a small group of new fun friends has made a great 2 days too. Had so much laughter and appreciate the friendship very much.
Whats excite me more is one of them approach me asking whether I am in a magazine years back and ask how is Jaden? (That must be Parenthood 2008), I was like "Wow" but keep it humble. Never know someone remembers.
Back to conference, I still love the image workshop given by Sheila Wong @ SWET Advancement Centre Sdn. Bhd.
The best workshop and yes, you will give away your crocs shoe and it will transform your being. Love you Sheila and I do not mind going to your workshop with another crocs knowing that I will be secured with more of your valuable and powerful comments. ;)
Here's some highlight of this year Conference:
- How to Think Like your Boss
- Wake up to Dazzle
- Managing Your Role to Finish Well
- Do you have a Perfect Match?
- Gorgeous, Sexy and Rich (Money for Women in Good and Tough times)
- You are more Beautiful than you think
- 8 ideas to Boost your Career
- It's All About You!
Had a great time with their activity, and looking at the crowd of 380 delegates and most of them are not their first year in the yearly conference, I would say that they are the preferable sought after training provider for Secretarial conference in Kuala Lumpur. Held at Seri Pacific Hotel, Kuala Lumpur on 27-28th April 2011.
My personal rating:
a) The crowd is just too large and those who are seated in the corner are less attentive too.
b) The conference is great for HR networking as you can meet a number of lovely secretaries.
c) The topics here are very general if you compared to a more precise workshop. Here, you will probably have fun singing or dancing rather than focusing on the topics so much.
Apart from my lil' drawback, I am really delighted to be one of the "Ms. Winning Smile 2011" - 2nd runner up among 380 delegates. Got myself a SunGlass, love it as hasn't got one.
Being a leader to a small group of new fun friends has made a great 2 days too. Had so much laughter and appreciate the friendship very much.
Whats excite me more is one of them approach me asking whether I am in a magazine years back and ask how is Jaden? (That must be Parenthood 2008), I was like "Wow" but keep it humble. Never know someone remembers.
Back to conference, I still love the image workshop given by Sheila Wong @ SWET Advancement Centre Sdn. Bhd.
The best workshop and yes, you will give away your crocs shoe and it will transform your being. Love you Sheila and I do not mind going to your workshop with another crocs knowing that I will be secured with more of your valuable and powerful comments. ;)
Salsa Samba @ La Bomba KL!
Sexay, shake it and its a wet Thursday for us @ La Bomba KL! Woot.. woot! Having a great great day organising a great day out for ladies ie. hot mamas!
Met Roberto, a hunk - how perfect if he is taller. LOL.
Had a heaps of fun shooting water gun, running around the place - felt like a kiddo who never play water gun before for a long time, hence fully utilised and end up with fever and flu and cough now.
Good food, lovely salsa class and a fun day, couldn't ask for more! Will visit again with hubby for sure! Thumbs up!
A little review from their website:
Located in Starhill Gallery, Bukit Bintang; it is the first concept venue in Malaysia to host several different entertainment categories in one location. Living up to their Mantra, “Living Latin”, La Bomba brings the best of Latin American music and cultures, spinning the hottest Latin tracks by Venezuelan born DJ, Martin Reyes.
Serving delicious authentic Latin American food and drinks such as Chicaron, Mojitos and many more, the sexy and chic interior will absolutely evoke the inner Latin in everyone.
La Bomba also organises fun activities for children, known as the Las Bombitas consisting of salsa classes, music appreciation, drama, cooking and many more.
Every Saturday is Cuban Salsa Night, La Bomba plays host to the invigorating beats of World Music, Top 40 hits, Latin music, Afro-Cuban music and Afro-house. Look forward to every Thursday, as La Bomba offers free salsa classes for those who want an introduction to this sexy Latin American dance and Tequila on the house for the ladies!
Tuesday - Bachata Night
Wednesday - Ballroom Night
Thursday - Ladies Night with free salsa beginners class
Friday - Salsa Night
Saturday - Cuban Salsa Night
Where is This?
LA BOMBA
Lower Ground Floor, Starhill Gallery,
55100 Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
Contact:
Martin Reyes +6-016-3175385
Mummy - learn from our mistakes
Jaden has inspired me with lots of thing especially in our daily life. As I was driving both of them to caretakers, we pass the guard house and every morning without fail the guard would say "Good Morning , Madam, have a nice day!" and repeat with "Good morning baby! How are you? or Have a nice day, baby!". His daily greeting makes a lovely day.
Having repeatedly say my mum is a nag, I didn't realized I always ask Jaden the same question. "Jaden, why didn't you say good morning Uncle" or "say hello?" - No manners you know, when someone greets you you must greet them back.
He is silent and kept quiet. "Reply mummy please, ok?" "Jaden??"
"Mummy, the window is close, cannot see uncle"
I gulped and stoned a second before continuing with "Oh, I am sorry, you mean you can't see uncle thats why you didn't say Good Morning?" "Alright, I will open the window next time for you, ok? and he replied OK.
I am blushed. and he really surprised me, I understate him. But it was hilarious and told hubby that this guy is just too smart. I should change too, I think I am a little nagger these days.. LOL.
Having repeatedly say my mum is a nag, I didn't realized I always ask Jaden the same question. "Jaden, why didn't you say good morning Uncle" or "say hello?" - No manners you know, when someone greets you you must greet them back.
He is silent and kept quiet. "Reply mummy please, ok?" "Jaden??"
"Mummy, the window is close, cannot see uncle"
I gulped and stoned a second before continuing with "Oh, I am sorry, you mean you can't see uncle thats why you didn't say Good Morning?" "Alright, I will open the window next time for you, ok? and he replied OK.
I am blushed. and he really surprised me, I understate him. But it was hilarious and told hubby that this guy is just too smart. I should change too, I think I am a little nagger these days.. LOL.
Tea Talk - How to improve intimacy in your relationship
Thanks to my mum again for looking after our lil monster and off we go, the four of us - me, hub, sis, Jack to this so-called 3 hours tea talk from Great Eastern. ;) 1.30pm-4.30pm is the agenda on the print, but 2.45 to start it out and ended 5.30 is a bit tiring.
We have book earlier through phone, be there and paid RM5 per person, and we enjoyed a fruitful talk, goody bag, samples and lucky draw!
Where is This?
Great Eastern Hall,
We have book earlier through phone, be there and paid RM5 per person, and we enjoyed a fruitful talk, goody bag, samples and lucky draw!
Where is This?
Great Eastern Hall,
Level 6, Menara Great Eastern.
GPS coordinate 101.736842, 3.160160
It features USA-licensed family therapist Dr Johnben Loy, famous funny man Douglas Lim, and self defense master Sonny Loke. The talk is about how partners should communicate effectively for better relationship, and how sex and money does play a role in a relationship, how to listen and talk effectively.
Dr Johnben Loy have the similar content with the marriage course that I attended but have more theory. But sad that there is some error in the video, thus it was a bit bored.
I personally enjoyed laughing to the funny story from Dauglas Lim, especially with his rabbit story, how true! I am also inspired with the showcase and steps of simple self defense by Sonny Loke and his team - group of people from Aikido Dojo
We are lucky that day, Jack has got a huge bottle of Evening primrose oil - that will be my sis belongings, and I got a Gintell eye massager with a GE tote bag. Ahh... Am so so happy, well worth for a RM5 and the wait. ;)
GPS coordinate 101.736842, 3.160160
It features USA-licensed family therapist Dr Johnben Loy, famous funny man Douglas Lim, and self defense master Sonny Loke. The talk is about how partners should communicate effectively for better relationship, and how sex and money does play a role in a relationship, how to listen and talk effectively.
Dr Johnben Loy have the similar content with the marriage course that I attended but have more theory. But sad that there is some error in the video, thus it was a bit bored.
I personally enjoyed laughing to the funny story from Dauglas Lim, especially with his rabbit story, how true! I am also inspired with the showcase and steps of simple self defense by Sonny Loke and his team - group of people from Aikido Dojo
We are lucky that day, Jack has got a huge bottle of Evening primrose oil - that will be my sis belongings, and I got a Gintell eye massager with a GE tote bag. Ahh... Am so so happy, well worth for a RM5 and the wait. ;)
Encouraging child to Read & Learn
Its never too young to start to read early. Jaden has been going to playgroup since he was two and he can speaks well, and I think he is now ready to read and to enrol him into preschool. He has been showing the interest in grabbing books, asking me to read to him, asking, why, who, where... and has just recently learn how to role play, he is the teacher and teach us to sing too.
I have bought lots of books, inclusive peter and jane, alphabets, letters, and now exposing him to various self printed flash cards. Flash card are varies from animal and their babies, pictionary to built his vocabulary, planets name and life cycle of animals and insects, and we tell story based on the lifecycle. By reading to him, and he reads back, it helps and you will be surprise on how much he learnt. I have also flashcard which i printed out "YELLOW" in bold yellow font, so that he will know "Y.E.L.L.O.W" stand for yellow.
We also visited the "Dino Alive" show in National Science Centre last week, and he can picture what he has read about the planets, and on life cycles. And he actually amaze on how huge is the dinasaur in the centre. With this, he could tell us stories and have more interest with his books than just merely telling him to read blankly.
Parents can search kindergarten materials from KMode Marketing in Puchong for flash card and USL in Subang for its lovely quality flashcard holder. I have also bought some sentence making flashcards and letters, so that I could combine them and make into words for his reading. By seeing lots more of these combination, he can then built more fun words and will assist him in reading.
Reward chart are useful too, parent could try to reward them if they have read well, by giving simple encouragement, like hugs, movie out, play outdoor etc.
This is how I think children should learn - in a fun manners. ;)
I have bought lots of books, inclusive peter and jane, alphabets, letters, and now exposing him to various self printed flash cards. Flash card are varies from animal and their babies, pictionary to built his vocabulary, planets name and life cycle of animals and insects, and we tell story based on the lifecycle. By reading to him, and he reads back, it helps and you will be surprise on how much he learnt. I have also flashcard which i printed out "YELLOW" in bold yellow font, so that he will know "Y.E.L.L.O.W" stand for yellow.
We also visited the "Dino Alive" show in National Science Centre last week, and he can picture what he has read about the planets, and on life cycles. And he actually amaze on how huge is the dinasaur in the centre. With this, he could tell us stories and have more interest with his books than just merely telling him to read blankly.
Parents can search kindergarten materials from KMode Marketing in Puchong for flash card and USL in Subang for its lovely quality flashcard holder. I have also bought some sentence making flashcards and letters, so that I could combine them and make into words for his reading. By seeing lots more of these combination, he can then built more fun words and will assist him in reading.
Reward chart are useful too, parent could try to reward them if they have read well, by giving simple encouragement, like hugs, movie out, play outdoor etc.
This is how I think children should learn - in a fun manners. ;)
Mothers Day is Approaching...
Had fun putting in some notes and thought of putting up here. ;) Am really anxious to see my picture on Mothers day advertisement and banner in the Mines next month. My first lifetime experience. Meanwhile, scribbling a little poem for mum in Parenthots @ the Star. ;)
Vivien is her name, "Ah siew" is her nick name,
My mother ain't facebook or twitter lover, but she is using skype better,
She ain't got any PHD, but has a great parenting philosophy,
She ain't a doctor, but remedy is on her finger tips,
She ain't got any Clutch bag, I regard her as the perfect discount catcher,
She ain't the best cook, but she always serve's my best yong tau foo,
She ain't best granny, but she will take care of my babies when we want to go retreat,
She ain't no superwoman, she is just my ever lovely mother who deserves a "SLICE OF HEAVEN"
Happy Mother's Day, Mum. Thank you will not be enough said. Stories will not be enough told, but you will be treasured and being yourself will leave a legend to us in times to come and forever more....
Vivien is her name, "Ah siew" is her nick name,
My mother ain't facebook or twitter lover, but she is using skype better,
She ain't got any PHD, but has a great parenting philosophy,
She ain't a doctor, but remedy is on her finger tips,
She ain't got any Clutch bag, I regard her as the perfect discount catcher,
She ain't the best cook, but she always serve's my best yong tau foo,
She ain't best granny, but she will take care of my babies when we want to go retreat,
She ain't no superwoman, she is just my ever lovely mother who deserves a "SLICE OF HEAVEN"
Happy Mother's Day, Mum. Thank you will not be enough said. Stories will not be enough told, but you will be treasured and being yourself will leave a legend to us in times to come and forever more....
William Syndrome in Malaysia
My baby girl has been diagnosed with William Syndrome when she is 7.5 months, and now she is approaching 22 months. It has not been an easy journey knowing her condition, and there is lots worries and fears and yes, I can't deny that we actually worries until to the extend of finding suitable school for her when she is 7 years old.
Yesterday night is a leap of progress and family's leap of excitement, my baby can now walk holding her one hand. God hears my prayer and I am too ecstatic and start to sms relative and friends who concerned. I really can't wait to see her walk all these while and she did it.... tears of happiness indeed. ;)
Her achievement wasn't a one day success. To all the mothers out there with special children, I heard you and we need to be patient. My girl has gone to many doctors, midwife, physio therapist, occupational therapist, speech therapist, audiologist, cardiologist, genetist, clinics after clinics and hospitals. Not forgetting the support from family members and friends and society is fairly important to provide us with strength and confidence in handling our children.
I am glad we had to know of her condition early and work it out. What is William Syndrome? From Wikipedia, "is a rare neurodevelopmental disorder caused by a deletion of about 26 genes from the long arm of chromosome 7.[1] It is characterized by a distinctive, "elfin" facial appearance, along with a low nasal bridge; an unusually cheerful demeanor and ease with strangers; developmental delay coupled with strong language skills; and cardiovascular problems, such as supravalvular aortic stenosis and transient hypercalcaemia."
Malaysia has got our first "Child Development Centre" in HUKM, Cheras and they are equipped with specialist for special children. You may be flooded with lots of doctors appointment initially but you will go along with the flows once you see progressive milestone in your child. We have limited support for William Syndrome in the country, and I think parents contact will be the source of support and encouragement to bring up a William Syndrome Child.
Thus, we should not give up, and I am confident to say that you will see the fun, loving character in your special children, just like me. My son always have fun with his sister, as they imitating each other and at times she actually taught him how to be brave. I am always more than happy to support if you need some sharing in William Syndrome.
I had this article featured at PARENTHOTS @ THE STAR
I am thankful that they are associations and supporting parent who come forward and share their thoughts and assistance.
Yesterday night is a leap of progress and family's leap of excitement, my baby can now walk holding her one hand. God hears my prayer and I am too ecstatic and start to sms relative and friends who concerned. I really can't wait to see her walk all these while and she did it.... tears of happiness indeed. ;)
Her achievement wasn't a one day success. To all the mothers out there with special children, I heard you and we need to be patient. My girl has gone to many doctors, midwife, physio therapist, occupational therapist, speech therapist, audiologist, cardiologist, genetist, clinics after clinics and hospitals. Not forgetting the support from family members and friends and society is fairly important to provide us with strength and confidence in handling our children.
I am glad we had to know of her condition early and work it out. What is William Syndrome? From Wikipedia, "is a rare neurodevelopmental disorder caused by a deletion of about 26 genes from the long arm of chromosome 7.[1] It is characterized by a distinctive, "elfin" facial appearance, along with a low nasal bridge; an unusually cheerful demeanor and ease with strangers; developmental delay coupled with strong language skills; and cardiovascular problems, such as supravalvular aortic stenosis and transient hypercalcaemia."
Malaysia has got our first "Child Development Centre" in HUKM, Cheras and they are equipped with specialist for special children. You may be flooded with lots of doctors appointment initially but you will go along with the flows once you see progressive milestone in your child. We have limited support for William Syndrome in the country, and I think parents contact will be the source of support and encouragement to bring up a William Syndrome Child.
Thus, we should not give up, and I am confident to say that you will see the fun, loving character in your special children, just like me. My son always have fun with his sister, as they imitating each other and at times she actually taught him how to be brave. I am always more than happy to support if you need some sharing in William Syndrome.
I had this article featured at PARENTHOTS @ THE STAR
I am thankful that they are associations and supporting parent who come forward and share their thoughts and assistance.
Playgroup 2011 by Community at Heart
It's School time for Jaden. Yes, it will be Jaden's 2nd year in playgroup. He enjoyed his first year and really looking forward for his 2nd year and mummy am too. Pretty delighted as mummy will be more involve this year, in volunteering to assist in Art and Craft session. Its gonna be fun!For those who are new to playgroup or even doubtful on what playgroup is all about and ever wonder why is it for your kiddo? This page is for my darling friends and those who want to know more about what playgroup is about.
Play Group @ Community at Heart located at Tadika Anak Riang, Puchong. It advocates parent and child bonding through a time of constructive play and fun interaction. It believes in crafting sweet memories together as the parent purposefully gets involved in developing and growing his or her child.
They incorporate many other fun activities (painting, baking, play dough, teatime and lots more) to the delight of the children.
Here is a snapshot for last year visit to the Zoo. Jaden loves the trip.
Where is This?
Tadika Anak Riang
Child Age of Admission: 18 months to 4 years old (must be accompanied by one parent at least).
Held every FIRST and THIRD Saturday of the month (April-December), with a minimum contribution of RM50 for 3 months, they welcome you and your child to a fun and character building time.
For more information, please contact Teresa (012 2670 948)
CitySquare Shooting Gallery Segambut- Its a Bang! Bang! Bang! Weekend
Splendid weekend I had with hubby, sis and Jack. Ofcourse, the activity for today will never be materialised if it weren't our parents. Mum and dad take care of Jaden, April and Runyi for us. ;D. Hurray, off we go to Segambut for our much awaited gun session.
I am NOT into his but it turns out ok for me. Only 5 shots, manage to get it right. Kinda shaky as am freaking out. I scared the instructor as after each shot I handled the gun towards him. ;P
It was fun. Guns are for ladies too, at least my sis proves that girls can do a better job. Try it out ladies and mummies, at least for once of its kind experience while having fun with your hubbies. And now I know what is the difference holding a Glock 17 and Glock 19.
Thumbs UP!
Where is This?
9th Floor, Menara TKSS, 206, Jalan Segambut, 51200KL
603-62578975
Marriage Course at Eaglepoint Puchong
When we say we had been married for 10,20, 30 years or even longer, do we know our spouse exactly, what they need, their inner feeling, their expectation towards us or do we practice good communication and do lots of listening? Do we notice that men and women are different?
Why isn't he emptying the garbage bin? Why is she keep asking how is my day? I need to be alone.. He is not listening to me.. and the list could go on and on...
We tend then forgetting the most important in marriage, have we forgotten our marriage time after a while, especially after we had kids to chase for, kids to bath for, kids to clean poo for and kids to yell at? Sadly but yes if you sit down and think about this.
Marriage course lead by Pastor Steven Teoh and Bee Khim organised by Community at Heart enlighten us on marriage and its held at Eaglepoint Puchong. Me and hubby attended this two years ago and benefited from it ever since. I couldn't help but spreading the course. As I get along with others, everyone had different path of life, different ways in managing their marriage. And yes, it saddens when you hear break-ups, third party in marriage, leaving sorrows and empty hopes to spouse and the innocent children.
This is for you. Look into your marriage, your spouse will be the one holding your hands till death do you apart, why not putting little extra hours and add some spice to your marriage once a week? Packed with laughter and understanding yourself and your spouse, be ready to change..and be ready to have fun!
Its a yearly event, so if you miss this, please do call and enquire for the next session. Believe me, you will be surprise on how much you gain from this. ;)
Why isn't he emptying the garbage bin? Why is she keep asking how is my day? I need to be alone.. He is not listening to me.. and the list could go on and on...
We tend then forgetting the most important in marriage, have we forgotten our marriage time after a while, especially after we had kids to chase for, kids to bath for, kids to clean poo for and kids to yell at? Sadly but yes if you sit down and think about this.
Marriage course lead by Pastor Steven Teoh and Bee Khim organised by Community at Heart enlighten us on marriage and its held at Eaglepoint Puchong. Me and hubby attended this two years ago and benefited from it ever since. I couldn't help but spreading the course. As I get along with others, everyone had different path of life, different ways in managing their marriage. And yes, it saddens when you hear break-ups, third party in marriage, leaving sorrows and empty hopes to spouse and the innocent children.
This is for you. Look into your marriage, your spouse will be the one holding your hands till death do you apart, why not putting little extra hours and add some spice to your marriage once a week? Packed with laughter and understanding yourself and your spouse, be ready to change..and be ready to have fun!
Its a yearly event, so if you miss this, please do call and enquire for the next session. Believe me, you will be surprise on how much you gain from this. ;)
Where is This?
Eaglepoint Puchong
Fun...fun and more fun..
Who says mum can't have fun after having kids? It's the matter on how we arrange our time and how we want to involve our family with our social life and our connections. Writing this out now, would love to share with Regina. I wish her a safe pregnancy and am really really happy with the news which I got last week from my best uncle ie. best pal.(Kelvin is too young to be my dearest uncle). We had been a great childhood buddy along with my sis. Last weekend, we bring back the laughter, the kiddo in us. Now of us have our own family, we still who we are, the joker, the craze, the bully.
How time flies...
20th March 2011 - I host (as kungfu panda says.. hooooooossssting!) Yes, I am hooo-o-o-o-o-ssting! ;)
We celebrated hubby's and Jaden's birthday, and also our 5th year wedding anniversary. Wasn't too much on the anniversary celebration as it has been 13 years we are together, anniversary is just something sloting in to the party. Hubby knows I have lots of anniversary and birthday till he sometimes lost count or "again?". LOL.
Not an easy task to get everyone in a roof, but manage to have a troop and had the whole place at TTDI, FnD Mindspot. Check it out here They had a lovely ambience for hangout and its just lovely for kids who love to explore themselves, while the quiet one can sit back and relax.
Had so much laughter. Played Giant Jenga, footsball at the centre while arranging some games myself for my guest. Paper clip snake, newspaper snake, Battery tower, fishing for kids too.
We agreed that we have not had enough of that, we will be back for more games..childhood games like "batu seremban", "giant stick" etc...you name it, I am sure they had it. ;)
I do think that those are really much fun, better than stick yourself at computer all day long without any interaction?? *wink*
Where is This?
FnD Mindspot
103A, Jalan Aminuddin Baki,
Taman Tun Dr Ismail
40000 Kuala Lumpur
How time flies...
20th March 2011 - I host (as kungfu panda says.. hooooooossssting!) Yes, I am hooo-o-o-o-o-ssting! ;)
We celebrated hubby's and Jaden's birthday, and also our 5th year wedding anniversary. Wasn't too much on the anniversary celebration as it has been 13 years we are together, anniversary is just something sloting in to the party. Hubby knows I have lots of anniversary and birthday till he sometimes lost count or "again?". LOL.
Not an easy task to get everyone in a roof, but manage to have a troop and had the whole place at TTDI, FnD Mindspot. Check it out here They had a lovely ambience for hangout and its just lovely for kids who love to explore themselves, while the quiet one can sit back and relax.
Had so much laughter. Played Giant Jenga, footsball at the centre while arranging some games myself for my guest. Paper clip snake, newspaper snake, Battery tower, fishing for kids too.
We agreed that we have not had enough of that, we will be back for more games..childhood games like "batu seremban", "giant stick" etc...you name it, I am sure they had it. ;)
I do think that those are really much fun, better than stick yourself at computer all day long without any interaction?? *wink*
Where is This?
FnD Mindspot
103A, Jalan Aminuddin Baki,
Taman Tun Dr Ismail
40000 Kuala Lumpur
Its a busy and happy year..
A year has passed. How time flies. I have learnt a lot along the way. Maybe I could scribble some here before my babies eventually wake up.
Jaden is now 3 years and he is still give us a lot of surprise phases. Getting along fine at my mum place so that hubby and I could wonder away for a date. Well, just need to reassure him that we will be back for him.
The other day I bought lots of toys from Candy, a friend we met at the dolphin show in Sunway, and we become close friend. Her preloved item is just great and both my lovey dovey loves them. Toys need not be expensive but need to be functional. Am now adopting a categories concept for all their toys so that the could place the item back to the same place after that.
This year, there will be no excape to get Jaden a school. Think he's ready to set on after his potty training but 3 years old is just too young for me, thus I opt to school him in year 4. He will still be attached to alternate Saturday playgroup this April and hope that he is all set next year. Being a kiasu parents as others, i did have a thinking to homeschool him - but my approach is to sent him to school which provide homeschool. But ofcourse, there are numerous thing to think of, syllabus, acceptance in college, social.. and the list goes on. Have a word or two, well more than that, a huge discussion it was. Friends, school, internet, and it seems a Chinese school for his primary and a private school for secondary may also could be considered giving way that there is an omission in UPSR and PMR exam. But how true, I need the readers to enlighten me.
As for April, my little one. She seems small but had a intelligent mind at times. Learning her step each day now, i could see a different her. She now listens and begin to understand us. Daddy is so happy last night that she actually pass something to him when ask. am really happy. Only god knows.
By the way, APril is diagnosed with William Syndrome, that was few months back. the news has not been easy for me and hubby, it wasn't really. But a big encouragement we had from family members, friends, doctors and theraphist gave me a different view to my only daughter. She is so special - everyone just loved her. She has this special attachment with everyone. That is a gift, and yes, she too give us lots of laughter I must admit, as well as tears. WOuld love to share in the next postings.
Home? Hubby and I have planted almost 3 months of our time and dedication and health to out lovely home. Kids has been away from home during the period of time. Renovation - its a crazy process especially when there is already a stay in. Imagine removing and packing things, clearing debrish, vacumming dust, Painting of walls, screaming at contractors, sourcing of material, blah blah blah...
Manage to get works done and voila! I am delighted as we settled down. We love our home, jaden and April got themselves a lovely room. ;) (Mum always ask me isn't it too early to get both of the kids in their own room?) - well, to our perspective its always easier to start young. They are getting it good, and its a wise choice for us. Jaden love to have dim light while sleeping while April love it dark. They have nice sleep as well as us. No more kicking around, turning and disturbing. ;D
Family and relationship? Its not a good news to hear breakup from your close ones. SOme things are just too complicated to describe, but it has now a norm, I have heard not one, but few of close ones being in the situation and I am really sad and felt for them. Marriage course is all I could advice them to go to, marriage time is all that we could spent to get back the sparks and yes will share in postings to come. Marriage is a long term learning course. It has never been easy nor its too hard, but both have to compromise and yes, we should learnt along the way...
My Life? Enjoying every bits and parcel of my age. LOL. Experiencing the best of life could be. Going out, meeting new friends, going for activities, training, games, new places, new food, experiencing new recipe, and the best of all (that will be in the next sector once I got the photography done next week)
Jaden is now 3 years and he is still give us a lot of surprise phases. Getting along fine at my mum place so that hubby and I could wonder away for a date. Well, just need to reassure him that we will be back for him.
The other day I bought lots of toys from Candy, a friend we met at the dolphin show in Sunway, and we become close friend. Her preloved item is just great and both my lovey dovey loves them. Toys need not be expensive but need to be functional. Am now adopting a categories concept for all their toys so that the could place the item back to the same place after that.
This year, there will be no excape to get Jaden a school. Think he's ready to set on after his potty training but 3 years old is just too young for me, thus I opt to school him in year 4. He will still be attached to alternate Saturday playgroup this April and hope that he is all set next year. Being a kiasu parents as others, i did have a thinking to homeschool him - but my approach is to sent him to school which provide homeschool. But ofcourse, there are numerous thing to think of, syllabus, acceptance in college, social.. and the list goes on. Have a word or two, well more than that, a huge discussion it was. Friends, school, internet, and it seems a Chinese school for his primary and a private school for secondary may also could be considered giving way that there is an omission in UPSR and PMR exam. But how true, I need the readers to enlighten me.
As for April, my little one. She seems small but had a intelligent mind at times. Learning her step each day now, i could see a different her. She now listens and begin to understand us. Daddy is so happy last night that she actually pass something to him when ask. am really happy. Only god knows.
By the way, APril is diagnosed with William Syndrome, that was few months back. the news has not been easy for me and hubby, it wasn't really. But a big encouragement we had from family members, friends, doctors and theraphist gave me a different view to my only daughter. She is so special - everyone just loved her. She has this special attachment with everyone. That is a gift, and yes, she too give us lots of laughter I must admit, as well as tears. WOuld love to share in the next postings.
Home? Hubby and I have planted almost 3 months of our time and dedication and health to out lovely home. Kids has been away from home during the period of time. Renovation - its a crazy process especially when there is already a stay in. Imagine removing and packing things, clearing debrish, vacumming dust, Painting of walls, screaming at contractors, sourcing of material, blah blah blah...
Manage to get works done and voila! I am delighted as we settled down. We love our home, jaden and April got themselves a lovely room. ;) (Mum always ask me isn't it too early to get both of the kids in their own room?) - well, to our perspective its always easier to start young. They are getting it good, and its a wise choice for us. Jaden love to have dim light while sleeping while April love it dark. They have nice sleep as well as us. No more kicking around, turning and disturbing. ;D
Family and relationship? Its not a good news to hear breakup from your close ones. SOme things are just too complicated to describe, but it has now a norm, I have heard not one, but few of close ones being in the situation and I am really sad and felt for them. Marriage course is all I could advice them to go to, marriage time is all that we could spent to get back the sparks and yes will share in postings to come. Marriage is a long term learning course. It has never been easy nor its too hard, but both have to compromise and yes, we should learnt along the way...
My Life? Enjoying every bits and parcel of my age. LOL. Experiencing the best of life could be. Going out, meeting new friends, going for activities, training, games, new places, new food, experiencing new recipe, and the best of all (that will be in the next sector once I got the photography done next week)
CNY & Valentine 2011
Hi All,
I am back to work… time flies. LOL. Happy New year to all.
I had a great CNY leave, besides having to be the chief slave, chief cook, chief babysitting and chief home maker and being a massive fans of the “Shaun the Sheep”- thanks to Chang and Jaden makes all watch and giggles.
Jaden is getting is initial potty train started well, and little April manage to sleep in her own room well too and bid farewell to her pacifier. (Here are my proud story and you wouldn’t wanna to hear the other side of it – cranky babies, mummy, mummy, mummy, and mummy, and mummy kiss me goodnite, mummy I want to eat pancake, mummy I want to eat biscuit, mummy I want to watch Shaun the sheep… and list goes on and on….) LOL.
Whilst me and hubby only had all time by ourselves valentine night and yesterday but it’s a great one. Thanks to Runge too for the lucky draw and we had a great nite rest at JW Marriott. They gave a surprise and herein just sharing the pictures.
Had fun shopping around pavilion and area nearby and do check out a hokkien mee stall at isetan food court as you will be surprised! Lots of shopping rejuvenates definitely. LOL. And a fun laugh throughout the whole movie of : All’s Well End’s Well 2011 at GSC Cinema. A thumbs up.
Wishing everyone a great year ahead!
I am back to work… time flies. LOL. Happy New year to all.
I had a great CNY leave, besides having to be the chief slave, chief cook, chief babysitting and chief home maker and being a massive fans of the “Shaun the Sheep”- thanks to Chang and Jaden makes all watch and giggles.
Jaden is getting is initial potty train started well, and little April manage to sleep in her own room well too and bid farewell to her pacifier. (Here are my proud story and you wouldn’t wanna to hear the other side of it – cranky babies, mummy, mummy, mummy, and mummy, and mummy kiss me goodnite, mummy I want to eat pancake, mummy I want to eat biscuit, mummy I want to watch Shaun the sheep… and list goes on and on….) LOL.
Whilst me and hubby only had all time by ourselves valentine night and yesterday but it’s a great one. Thanks to Runge too for the lucky draw and we had a great nite rest at JW Marriott. They gave a surprise and herein just sharing the pictures.
Had fun shopping around pavilion and area nearby and do check out a hokkien mee stall at isetan food court as you will be surprised! Lots of shopping rejuvenates definitely. LOL. And a fun laugh throughout the whole movie of : All’s Well End’s Well 2011 at GSC Cinema. A thumbs up.
Wishing everyone a great year ahead!
The Mines: Jeans Icon 2010 on 10/10/10
10/10/10 is certainly a wonderful day to cherish.
Organised by the Mines, Seri Kembangan last Sunday 3pm, an event of transforming old jeans to something based on your creativity. Knowing not many details of this contest, I go ahead with a friend of mine and her daughter. Lots of sewing indeed and ideas keep flowing though out the process. I had transformed one maternity dress and 2 maternity pants to one chick umbrella and one stunning sexy dress. ;)
I emerged as the champion, competing against 15 contestants, 80% ranging from age 15-20. No age limit in the contest, but its really nice to feel young again especially around the teenage.
Thanks to hubby for the support along the way. We went to Putrajaya later that to have some photo shooting. Now I know it’s not easy to be a model posing on the street. One and a Half hour enjoying being photograph was fun thou!
Organised by the Mines, Seri Kembangan last Sunday 3pm, an event of transforming old jeans to something based on your creativity. Knowing not many details of this contest, I go ahead with a friend of mine and her daughter. Lots of sewing indeed and ideas keep flowing though out the process. I had transformed one maternity dress and 2 maternity pants to one chick umbrella and one stunning sexy dress. ;)
I emerged as the champion, competing against 15 contestants, 80% ranging from age 15-20. No age limit in the contest, but its really nice to feel young again especially around the teenage.
Thanks to hubby for the support along the way. We went to Putrajaya later that to have some photo shooting. Now I know it’s not easy to be a model posing on the street. One and a Half hour enjoying being photograph was fun thou!
Mrs Serdang 2010
I will treasure this moment - the fairytale - the legend of mine.
I had so much fun dancing with shah and her girl, I had fun tailoring my talent outfit, I had fun practicing with hubby, from planning to anything with my idealist man. Seriously, I miss the waka waka dance cum stripping performance. (Now Jaden knows how to sing and dance along with waka waka with me too) It’s about 1.5 week of rush & dedicated work and am so happy with the outcome. And am so happy I found some angels who assist to make this dream possible. Special thanks to hubby, shah with my lovely Barbie & my pilate sifu - Jasslyn (well, I am here promoting pilate again) ;D
It’s of course nervous to be on stage, but as the crowd cheer and laugh with you, we gain confidence. It’s no longer a competition while I am on stage, it’s just like my kindergarten performance, enjoying without stress. I am proud to dance on stage again after well so many years.
I am overwhelmed with joy to be the 1st runner up. The best part is when the crowd starts to yell my number, I am already flattered. It’s not the prize but they love my show what matters – to them I am already their champion. To do something with effort which reaps acknowledgement is my best accomplishment. Did I tell mum & mum in law I will stop joining all these?… well my itchy body tells me she loves to perform again, well maybe not this year – if she can hold on to other extra activity to do. ;p
It has been a While..
It has been a while this blog is being updated. Lots of ups and down happening around, hard to describe. But as passion moves on, I am coming up with new challenges for me and for the family. I hope it turns out well. Have been very happy lately meeting and knowing people, and I am here for the next quarter of the year! Cheers!
Jaden's new word - "Rubbish"
We used to see e-mails reading "Kids say the darnest thing" and yes, they are really innocent kiddos who will just make you laugh the way through. Recently, he has learn a new word from daddy. "Rubbish". Daddy showed him the pile of litter wrapped well in a black garbage bag. Kids are way too smart than I would have thought. Recent I am busy with my diaper cakes at home and the dining area has been my workspace. Never notice it was "really that messy" until he point to my pile of "art" and "junks" and say RUBBISH. Just yesterday he told me again, but this round, I ain't saw any "rubbish" and so, I ask him "Where dear, show to mummy.." and he walks while pointing to the bag of disposable diaper, with the "Jusco" plastic bags and says "Rubbish, there.....rubbish!" he certains. It was so funny and I think its time to de-clutter EVERYTHING, hoping it wouldn't look like rubbish to him. Darling, you are such a motivator - shall I say - our diciplinary teacher.
To help the needy, start from your close ones.
Reading is my passion since young and we are spoilt with books and reading material. Dad & mum always my idol for their good English and they has been my walking dictionary until dad got us a "thick dictionary".
Today, I spent my time with Jaden at April's nanny place. It was school holiday, so I thought to mingle around with my babies and the kids. 4 of the kids are happy, active, young kiddos at their age of 9,10,11,12 years old. We were chatting on nanny getting her eldest to another school for "remove" or "pre-form 1" as she has failed her BM and English in her Standard 6. They goes to after-school tuition but can't afford an outside tuition. They have problem understanding the words, not to mentioned the sentences. When asked for an English book, she would take out the old piece of school magazine and says that's all they have. Masters in their Chinese language, comes the 2nd girl with her books. "Dear, why are you reading Std 4 english books? I thought you will be in Std 6 next year?" She replied this "I don't understand, that's why.. my friend will teach me after he attends his private tuition, he will mark for me. But he won't be there during school holiday."
Its so sour to see these - I wept everytime I tell this story. And I can assures there's lot of unfortunate if we were to find out. Probably that's why God lead us to this family. I am so furtunate to have this nanny for April. She is the "princess" at nanny's. Just a cry would give her everything.
I offer a favor to ask me on those 2 languages and will bring them some reading materials. Thanks to Kevin Poon, my ever beloved uncle who will sponsor some exhibition reading materials from Grolier for the kids. I always thought, reading and knowledge is the best key in changing one's lifestyle, & hope I could help them in a little way.
Today, I spent my time with Jaden at April's nanny place. It was school holiday, so I thought to mingle around with my babies and the kids. 4 of the kids are happy, active, young kiddos at their age of 9,10,11,12 years old. We were chatting on nanny getting her eldest to another school for "remove" or "pre-form 1" as she has failed her BM and English in her Standard 6. They goes to after-school tuition but can't afford an outside tuition. They have problem understanding the words, not to mentioned the sentences. When asked for an English book, she would take out the old piece of school magazine and says that's all they have. Masters in their Chinese language, comes the 2nd girl with her books. "Dear, why are you reading Std 4 english books? I thought you will be in Std 6 next year?" She replied this "I don't understand, that's why.. my friend will teach me after he attends his private tuition, he will mark for me. But he won't be there during school holiday."
Its so sour to see these - I wept everytime I tell this story. And I can assures there's lot of unfortunate if we were to find out. Probably that's why God lead us to this family. I am so furtunate to have this nanny for April. She is the "princess" at nanny's. Just a cry would give her everything.
I offer a favor to ask me on those 2 languages and will bring them some reading materials. Thanks to Kevin Poon, my ever beloved uncle who will sponsor some exhibition reading materials from Grolier for the kids. I always thought, reading and knowledge is the best key in changing one's lifestyle, & hope I could help them in a little way.
Jaden at 20 months - Teaching Grandma Tortoise
We laugh repeatedly after we hear this from mum:
"Your son hands me the book and I teach him - wuu guii (means tortoise in Mandarin). He stares at me hesitately and told me confidently and loudly - tortoise! bath bath! - (to Jaden it means the tortoise is having bath inside the water.) Whoah... you see he is teaching me.."
Clever boy, we pat him. You are teaching popo that is tortoise and tortoise is bathing in the water. Good Boy. Next time you can teach popo again, okay?
Never underestimate what a 20months baby will know.
"Your son hands me the book and I teach him - wuu guii (means tortoise in Mandarin). He stares at me hesitately and told me confidently and loudly - tortoise! bath bath! - (to Jaden it means the tortoise is having bath inside the water.) Whoah... you see he is teaching me.."
Clever boy, we pat him. You are teaching popo that is tortoise and tortoise is bathing in the water. Good Boy. Next time you can teach popo again, okay?
Never underestimate what a 20months baby will know.
Jaden's Chewable Vitamin C
Its a routine now having vitamin C each day. He would go to the same place, get a bottle with the bear picture on it, come to me and say "Mie.. miee... bear bear..". Yeah, he is easily being taught. To recognise the Vitamin bottle of his. He loves the taste of Amway Chewable C - I hope he didn't misunderstood those are his snacks or sweets. "One per day only, Jaden...." Yes, he request for more now, more food, more drinks, more of this and that...Well, sometimes looking at his cheeky face, you won't say no. Spoilt Brat! ;P
April's New Nanny
It has been weeks seeking a new nanny for April. We had enough reasons and excuses from the previous nanny. Taking care of 5 children at a time, telling us the maid runs off, April dont seem to get any attention and doctor has alerted on her slow development.
It wasn't easy from phone calling to meets up, chatting ie. interviewing, scanning through the place and environment, the nanny's experience and the pricing. Finally the day has come - April will be at new nanny's place for her first night tonight.
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Anxious yet excited I am, our car reach the carpark of an apartment. To my mass surprise, we were greeted by nanny and her 4 children of 12th, 11th, 10th and 9th of age. They anticipated April's arrival so much, I could see and I can sense that April will be well taken care of here. Nanny carrying her while the children take care of her matress out from the car, one lead way to their house and yes, April is the princess. Its like a VIP arrival.
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I took the baby items off the baggage while the children waited, here's the powder, the lotion, here comes the toys and the shirts and the pacifier. As they look on, I observed their eyes of excitement and wonders. Nanny took April for feeding and get her pyjamas on. You wouldn't imagine how warm is their welcome. The children are just too sweet to be mentioned - they are just too sweet. Each grab a toy playing and talking with April. Living in a small room apartment, their relations is a perfect example of a lovely home. 4 childrens is so close, it reminds me of my childhood. I lay myself on the bed - it just feel so cosy.
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I could see April is happy being there, she is now the main attention and attraction.
Being a parent, I couldn't ask for more - she deserves to be loved.
It wasn't easy from phone calling to meets up, chatting ie. interviewing, scanning through the place and environment, the nanny's experience and the pricing. Finally the day has come - April will be at new nanny's place for her first night tonight.
***
Anxious yet excited I am, our car reach the carpark of an apartment. To my mass surprise, we were greeted by nanny and her 4 children of 12th, 11th, 10th and 9th of age. They anticipated April's arrival so much, I could see and I can sense that April will be well taken care of here. Nanny carrying her while the children take care of her matress out from the car, one lead way to their house and yes, April is the princess. Its like a VIP arrival.
***
I took the baby items off the baggage while the children waited, here's the powder, the lotion, here comes the toys and the shirts and the pacifier. As they look on, I observed their eyes of excitement and wonders. Nanny took April for feeding and get her pyjamas on. You wouldn't imagine how warm is their welcome. The children are just too sweet to be mentioned - they are just too sweet. Each grab a toy playing and talking with April. Living in a small room apartment, their relations is a perfect example of a lovely home. 4 childrens is so close, it reminds me of my childhood. I lay myself on the bed - it just feel so cosy.
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I could see April is happy being there, she is now the main attention and attraction.
Being a parent, I couldn't ask for more - she deserves to be loved.
Coping with my Crying Jaden baby..
Hi, Just had my 19 months boy (Jaden) cry for no reason last nite and phew! He is finally oozing to sleep. He seldom cry so bad at nite, and yesterday hubby had a terrible time with him, and so do I. We were so tired after work, had his dinner, he plays happily, we reads stories, so we think everything will be going on fine and he shall be very sleepy tonite.
Jaden had a minor cough last 2 days, and we did not put him in the air-conditioned room. Its about time to his bed, he walks to his crib and demand his milk. "Nen-nen!" I expressed breastmilk and gave to him. Done. 6 ounce and still wants more. We had been limiting his fluid intake as he will vomit when he has this irritation to cough. and he cries..Nen-nen! Nen-Nen!
"No more nen-nen boy, you will vomit. Can you please go to sleep - its very late." You know he is hungry but for his own good, we need to do something to avoid him throwing out. "ok, ok, I will call popo". I called my mum, we chat with Jaden. He is happy, as we chat about the cats near the apartment and the swing-swing - which his granpa use to bring him to the playground fortnightly. About 20 minutes, he says "ghed nai..." - his new word this week means "good nite".
Jaden still remembers his "Nen-Nen", and cries on top of his lung after the phone chat. Ok, I compromise, another 6 ounce for him, hoping he wont throw out. Done, and he cries. Hubby carries him and ask him to keep quiet. Ask him why he cries, soothes him, nothing works. Hubby begin to lose control and you can see my baby close his eyes tight, tighten his expression muscles not to cry and exclaimed "Mummy!!", and cries-again.
Seriously, I have no idea why he cries so badly yesterday. Maybe he would want something. What could it be? I could tell you its more stressful than working out those mathematics or accounting, but at this moment, you gotta stop him from yelling and crying. Here's what we did:
a) Checking his whole body - maybe there is some injury at nanny place which we are not known of. Nope -nothing.
b) Ask him questions - did you fall down at nanny place? Did you this and that? Are you happy at nanny place? You want to play? You want nen-nen? You want this and that and we are exhausted. No positive feedback.
c) Carried him, sang song. It works when I stand, but when I sit on my bed crading him, he cries again. Ok, i stand.
d) Hmm..maybe this. Get his attention! "Look Jaden! See? A star in the sky?". I pointed and show my excitement. He look at it and start to search, and I start to sing "Twinkle lil star" his fav song.... after a long while, he cries again when i put him to bed.
e) OK, I got a hint, he wants to go out or perhaps see things. "Tomorrow mummy bring you to popo place and we see aunty's dog wan?" you like to play with her dog rite? and jaden says "Dog."
Hubby grab his phone and played some personal video's on the phone. The one we videod Jaden while he is chasing the dog, while he is laughing playing at the playground, the video of his sister's -mei mei- crying and talking, the video of his favourite spot. We give him explaination on each video and catch his attention. " See? Jaden likes to play with this dog, and mummy is bringing you to see a dog tomorrow." Use simple phase to talk to a child, he would understand. "See? Mei-mei talk gagaga - Jaden know what is she talking?", aand "Wah..see? walk walk... we will go to walk tomorrow as now its dark at nite."
We began to see some sparks on his eyes, and after awhile soothing and talks with him, we have the result, looking at him, soundly asleep on OUR bed tonite. Do not bother to get him inside his crib. Today is not his "crib day". Perhaps he wants security and some pampering.
Hope this will be a guideline for parents and friends out there. Do not give up trying. You may just find a way to sooth your child. Mum and dad knows best - get your instinct right and you will see wonders like I do. Happy exploring!
Jaden had a minor cough last 2 days, and we did not put him in the air-conditioned room. Its about time to his bed, he walks to his crib and demand his milk. "Nen-nen!" I expressed breastmilk and gave to him. Done. 6 ounce and still wants more. We had been limiting his fluid intake as he will vomit when he has this irritation to cough. and he cries..Nen-nen! Nen-Nen!
"No more nen-nen boy, you will vomit. Can you please go to sleep - its very late." You know he is hungry but for his own good, we need to do something to avoid him throwing out. "ok, ok, I will call popo". I called my mum, we chat with Jaden. He is happy, as we chat about the cats near the apartment and the swing-swing - which his granpa use to bring him to the playground fortnightly. About 20 minutes, he says "ghed nai..." - his new word this week means "good nite".
Jaden still remembers his "Nen-Nen", and cries on top of his lung after the phone chat. Ok, I compromise, another 6 ounce for him, hoping he wont throw out. Done, and he cries. Hubby carries him and ask him to keep quiet. Ask him why he cries, soothes him, nothing works. Hubby begin to lose control and you can see my baby close his eyes tight, tighten his expression muscles not to cry and exclaimed "Mummy!!", and cries-again.
Seriously, I have no idea why he cries so badly yesterday. Maybe he would want something. What could it be? I could tell you its more stressful than working out those mathematics or accounting, but at this moment, you gotta stop him from yelling and crying. Here's what we did:
a) Checking his whole body - maybe there is some injury at nanny place which we are not known of. Nope -nothing.
b) Ask him questions - did you fall down at nanny place? Did you this and that? Are you happy at nanny place? You want to play? You want nen-nen? You want this and that and we are exhausted. No positive feedback.
c) Carried him, sang song. It works when I stand, but when I sit on my bed crading him, he cries again. Ok, i stand.
d) Hmm..maybe this. Get his attention! "Look Jaden! See? A star in the sky?". I pointed and show my excitement. He look at it and start to search, and I start to sing "Twinkle lil star" his fav song.... after a long while, he cries again when i put him to bed.
e) OK, I got a hint, he wants to go out or perhaps see things. "Tomorrow mummy bring you to popo place and we see aunty's dog wan?" you like to play with her dog rite? and jaden says "Dog."
Hubby grab his phone and played some personal video's on the phone. The one we videod Jaden while he is chasing the dog, while he is laughing playing at the playground, the video of his sister's -mei mei- crying and talking, the video of his favourite spot. We give him explaination on each video and catch his attention. " See? Jaden likes to play with this dog, and mummy is bringing you to see a dog tomorrow." Use simple phase to talk to a child, he would understand. "See? Mei-mei talk gagaga - Jaden know what is she talking?", aand "Wah..see? walk walk... we will go to walk tomorrow as now its dark at nite."
We began to see some sparks on his eyes, and after awhile soothing and talks with him, we have the result, looking at him, soundly asleep on OUR bed tonite. Do not bother to get him inside his crib. Today is not his "crib day". Perhaps he wants security and some pampering.
Hope this will be a guideline for parents and friends out there. Do not give up trying. You may just find a way to sooth your child. Mum and dad knows best - get your instinct right and you will see wonders like I do. Happy exploring!
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Mummy or Nanny?
I wonder if Jaden knows that nanny and mummy is NOT a word for ladies, is NOT the same species, is NOT the one who feeds, change nappies etc. He has been calling me mie-mie and sometimes he calls me "Nanny". Overacted, I screamed a thousand NO! I am your Mummy, not Nanny! Nevertheless, it’s cute. When he is waiting for his milk at night, if I am not at sight, he will call out few names just to be sure "Mie-Mie... Nanny....Mummy..." Oh dear! I hope he is improving in no times as I am kind of not into him calling me "Nanny" - sounds like those age ladies who breastfeed few child at a go. *wink*
Did we spent quality time with our child lately?
"Mummy is busy, play yourself". I realised I have been using this verse at recent times and guilt struck when I see him playing around himself. He is with a nanny day care for some time now and still not recuperating. Poor little one. Coming back from nanny place hearing mummy altered the same old word may trigger loneliness?
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I decided to look around town and saw this "Fitfor2" centre which offers fit ball for mum and toddlers. After much consideration, I decide to bring Jaden for a trial. Packed and all set to Bangsar Village II. I am the only Chinese, all are expats. Gee.. This must be an expat hang out place. We nibbled a muffin and the class starts at 10.30 am after filling up some form. Being someone who hasn't workout for ages, I am nervous yet excited. The instructor took a box of toys and scattered around the place for the kids. Babies are kept in the pram besides momma, and toddlers like Jaden are allowed to be wandering in the room, playing balls and toys.
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Grabbing the fitness ball, I am off bouncing my pounds off. A fun and rhythmic workout - not to mention the hand and thigh abs pain-a little numb too- thereafter. We can carry our toddler during certain workout, there is when I tot I should bring April instead. Haha. Up and down and swing.
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Grab us a plate of penne with cheese which cost RM9 for an IKEA's colour plate serving. Parking cost RM4.50 for the 2 hour. I do think the course is not THAT expensive in comparison to the meals and parking fees.
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Did I meet my objective - spent quality time together as mum and child? Partly yes and no. Mum is busy doing workout and when he shows me toys, I still utter the word "Mummy busy, play yourself". Alright, will go for a music class for toddlers - our next pit stop, mummy at the least have full concentration on just you.
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I decided to look around town and saw this "Fitfor2" centre which offers fit ball for mum and toddlers. After much consideration, I decide to bring Jaden for a trial. Packed and all set to Bangsar Village II. I am the only Chinese, all are expats. Gee.. This must be an expat hang out place. We nibbled a muffin and the class starts at 10.30 am after filling up some form. Being someone who hasn't workout for ages, I am nervous yet excited. The instructor took a box of toys and scattered around the place for the kids. Babies are kept in the pram besides momma, and toddlers like Jaden are allowed to be wandering in the room, playing balls and toys.
***
Grabbing the fitness ball, I am off bouncing my pounds off. A fun and rhythmic workout - not to mention the hand and thigh abs pain-a little numb too- thereafter. We can carry our toddler during certain workout, there is when I tot I should bring April instead. Haha. Up and down and swing.
***
Grab us a plate of penne with cheese which cost RM9 for an IKEA's colour plate serving. Parking cost RM4.50 for the 2 hour. I do think the course is not THAT expensive in comparison to the meals and parking fees.
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Did I meet my objective - spent quality time together as mum and child? Partly yes and no. Mum is busy doing workout and when he shows me toys, I still utter the word "Mummy busy, play yourself". Alright, will go for a music class for toddlers - our next pit stop, mummy at the least have full concentration on just you.
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